What's the easiest way to video call an older parent?

Use the phone they already have: FaceTime on an iPhone, or Google Meet on an Android, both free and built in. If the family is split between iPhone and Android, pick one app everyone uses, like WhatsApp or Facebook Messenger.

How can I video call if I have an iPhone and Mom has an Android?

Two easy ways: send her a FaceTime link she opens in her web browser, or have everyone use one cross-phone app such as WhatsApp or Facebook Messenger.

What if my parent can't work a phone or tablet?

A smart display like the Amazon Echo Show can auto-answer a family video call, so they don't have to tap anything. Senior-focused tablets managed by family are another option.

Is a smartwatch or a medical alert better for staying reachable?

An everyday smartwatch (Apple, Samsung, Pixel) handles calls, texts, and SOS but dials 911 or family directly and needs a cellular plan and daily charging. A medical-alert smartwatch connects to a trained 24/7 center for a monthly fee and is simpler. Both only help if worn and charged.

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Checking in from afar: video calls and wearables

When you can't be there in person, seeing a face beats a phone call, and a device on the wrist can call for help when the phone's in the other room. Here's the simplest way to set both up, starting with the phone they already carry.

Last reviewed: August 8, 2026

The short version:

Start with the phone they already have. iPhone? Use FaceTime. Android? Use Google Meet. Both are free and built in.
To connect an iPhone and an Android, pick one free app the whole family uses, WhatsApp or Facebook Messenger.
If tapping "answer" is hard, an Amazon Echo Show can answer a family video call by itself.
A wearable keeps them reachable and able to call for help, because the phone isn't always on them.

Pick the tool that matches the phone they already use.

Common questions

What's the easiest way to video call an older parent?: Use the phone they already have: FaceTime on an iPhone, or Google Meet on an Android, both free and built in. If the family is split between iPhone and Android, pick one app everyone uses, like WhatsApp or Facebook Messenger.
How can I video call if I have an iPhone and Mom has an Android?: Two easy ways: send her a FaceTime link she opens in her web browser, or have everyone use one cross-phone app such as WhatsApp or Facebook Messenger.
What if my parent can't work a phone or tablet?: A smart display like the Amazon Echo Show can auto-answer a family video call, so they don't have to tap anything. Senior-focused tablets managed by family are another option.
Is a smartwatch or a medical alert better for staying reachable?: An everyday smartwatch (Apple, Samsung, Pixel) handles calls, texts, and SOS but dials 911 or family directly and needs a cellular plan and daily charging. A medical-alert smartwatch connects to a trained 24/7 center for a monthly fee and is simpler. Both only help if worn and charged.

Start with the phone they already carry

The phone is almost always within reach, so it's the easiest place to start. Match the tool to the phone they have:

iPhone or iPad → FaceTime. It's already built in, no app to download, no new account. One tap from Contacts, and it's very reliable.
Android → Google Meet. This is Google's built-in video app (it replaced the older "Duo"), and it usually comes on the phone already.

What if the family is split between iPhones and Androids? Two easy fixes:

The iPhone person can send a FaceTime link that an Android relative opens right in their web browser, no Apple device needed.
Or everyone uses one free cross-phone app. WhatsApp works on iPhone and Android and is very reliable. Facebook Messenger works too, and it's the easiest if they're already on Facebook (more on that next). Pick one so the family isn't scattered across three apps.

If they already use Facebook

Many older adults already have Facebook, where they see grandkids' photos. If so, Facebook Messenger is a low-friction way to video call, the account already exists, so there's nothing new to sign up for. Just tap the video icon in a chat.

One caution, because Facebook is a favorite hunting ground for scammers. Remind your parent: Facebook will never message that their "account is locked, click here." Ignore friend requests from people they don't know, and be wary of a "friend" who suddenly asks for money or gift cards, the account may be hacked or fake. When in doubt, call the person directly. See also our note on scams in collections & valuables.

If a phone or tablet is too hard: a screen that answers itself

For someone who struggles to tap "answer," a smart display does the work. The standout for remote caregiving is the Amazon Echo Show: with its "Drop In" feature, family can start a video call that the Echo Show answers on its own, so your parent doesn't have to touch anything. It's voice-controlled too ("Alexa, call my daughter"). The Google Nest Hub is a similar screen device. There are also senior-focused tablets built for simplicity (for example GrandPad), managed by family for a monthly fee.

Wearables: stay in touch and call for help

The phone isn't always on them, especially at home. A device on the wrist goes everywhere and can call for help. There are two kinds, and the difference is who answers.

Type	What it does	Who it calls
Everyday smartwatch (Apple Watch, Samsung Galaxy Watch, Google Pixel Watch)	Calls, texts, Emergency SOS, and fall detection. Also does everyday things. Needs its own cellular plan to work away from the phone, and daily charging.	Dials 911 or your chosen family/friends directly
Medical-alert smartwatch (Medical Guardian MGMove, Bay Alarm SOS Smartwatch, Lively)	Press the button and talk through the watch. Cellular is included in the fee. Simpler, built for this one job. Roughly $30–$50 a month.	A trained 24/7 monitoring center, who then calls family or sends help

So an everyday smartwatch is great if your parent is comfortable with technology and wants one device for calls, texts, and SOS. A medical-alert smartwatch is simpler, with a trained person on the line, for a monthly fee. Both only help if they're worn and charged. For the full rundown of help buttons and fall detection, see medical alert & fall detection.

A few tips that make it stick

Let the caregiver set it up, and add themselves (and other family) as contacts.
Turn on auto-answer on a smart display where you can, so no tapping is needed.
Make the icons big and put the one app or the family contacts front and center.
Practice a call or two together before you rely on it.
Keep it charged and worn, a device in a drawer helps no one.

Sources

Apple Support -- join a FaceTime call from an Android or Windows device. https://support.apple.com/en-us/109364
Google Meet Help -- Duo upgraded/rebranded to Meet. https://support.google.com/meet/answer/15226472
WhatsApp -- voice and video calling. https://www.whatsapp.com/calling
Apple Support -- Emergency SOS and Fall Detection on Apple Watch. https://support.apple.com/en-us/108374
Medical Guardian -- MGMove smartwatch. https://www.medicalguardian.com/medical-alert-systems/smart-watch-alert-app
Bay Alarm Medical -- SOS Smartwatch. https://www.bayalarmmedical.com/medical-alert-system/sos-smartwatch/
Federal Trade Commission -- how to recognize and avoid scams. https://consumer.ftc.gov/scams

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